So many things (actions) to do, so little time. When people get older and have responsibilities (like being a father/mother), normally, they have to do so much that they have to ignore some important events (not a good thing), because they don't have enough time to do them. A wiseplanning/meditation could help, but of course, they don't have time to elaborate a proper planning/scheduling ( ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ ).