it sounds like you are talking about one person who you'd like to fuck but is also a dumbass and extrapolating that to all women who are leftist.

gender roles are fine, "egalitarian" men are generally assholes, masculinity is hot, there's nothing wrong with being attracted to masculinity. you're doing the "i'm a nice guy, and she likes this asshole guy". you're an asshole, and women in general are not like this. you're just friends with a couple dumbshits.

the last point clinches that fact that you're talking about one specific person. women leftists do not go about spouting about how they want to marry conservatives. you're just wrong on every point, shut the fuck up, mind your own business, and get better friends