btw my heart is all the people that got misdiagnosed, where a woman is generally is able to express their emotions more than men in society, and when you have actual real emotions that you do not how to deal with and it gets intense, she is seen crazy with their emotions and get slapped on bipolar or whatever they want that day instead of an elaborate test of sorts
and to the men, that was seen as intelligent kids and when they didnt know how to socialize they just believed the saying "men can stand on their own" because we take everything literally. because they were coddled for their damaging behavior (to themselves or others) and was said "boys will be boys"

oh and we cant look into peoples eyes because were "shy" and "introverted".

its both really fucking bad and noone wants to be like us. UGH i hate it when someone says they are soo autistic because they have a favorite thing and are soo quirky xP or whatever or they have ocd because they organize their fucking desk or whatever

again i am very lucky to be diagnosed with autism early, but i was diagnosed with adhd much later. i just thought it was all autism but nooo i got it for free with my xbox