>>15484
>That's just something people say to take away responsibility from the woman.
NTA, but it happens to men too.
And yes, it is most definitely not always clear right away.
They start to gaslight you and chip away at you in small ways at first usually. Sometimes the abuser isn't even aware of how shitty they are.

I don't know enought to say if it's the case for Kennedi, but your absolute statements rub me the wrong way. Could be that she's damaged and dumb in ways that she can't judge these things properly.