why would she make an "i don't need a boyfriend" video when she mentions having some they/them female partner all along while literally saying "i am choosing to look for friendships and not romantic interests because i just can't deal with that right now"? ok so there's a pookie, but it's not a romantic interest, but friendships are equally important as romantic interests, but i'm actually into girls and don't like guys, but i'm actually lonely despite all online friendships and a relationship, etc.? in any case, it's like posting "i don't need to commit tax fraud" or "i don't need photosynthesis", surely put girlfriend/wife then?