hi iris. know you like literally never lurk but if someone good comes across this and could forward would be nice, i also literally never look here it just hurts so deeply when you know most of these people so personally intuitively. anyway, i understood the unmutualling when i got too chudy sometimes but im sure you understand. and i know youre really cautious and sensitive so just knew to disengage and admire distantly. if youre in a good place and want to talk a bit you can message me privately of course and i won't ever talk about you publicly, as i'm sure you're aware with how i am with some of the girls.