i wish people realized the more negatively you post.... the more people will not want to invite you to things or be around you... you have to actively want to stay positive and better your life for people to stick around. you attract the energy you put out!

complaining from time to time is okay of course, just don't be an echo chamber on your socials for all to see. vent accounts help! posting fun hobbies or interests is wonderful! diversify the messages you're sending to your friends/mutuals/followers, the right people will come!