>>33709
If you haven't had a family member or loved one with bpd or npd and seen what lies underneath the mask they show to everyone you won't be able to understand it. These are people that by definition of the disorder do not process reality accurately and will rewrite memories to avoid guilt and other negative emotions. Their brains are broken in such a way that growth is almost impossible. Look at the symptoms and it's like a combination of all the worst instincts of toddlers and adults with almost no way to improve. I pity cluster Bs but am disturbed by their existence because what they lack makes them almost on an animal level of sentience.