>>33792
but would marky value such a person? Are those virtues she cares about when she dates men that have no such qualities? would she not abuse them? not cheat on them? maybe it could happen but she is driven to destroy herself and anything good in her life. Being a kind understanding person just makes you an easier target for someone with bpd and if you enter into a relationship with someone with bpd you will be devalued and split on matter how good or bad of a person you are.