I don't think she's reading the threads anymore guys. But if she is I have something to say . There have been some men in your life who truly cared about you. But you are completely unwilling to realize they are also human and have issues and that you can work through them together. instead you push them away looking to find the perfect man that you will never find. you don't think any of the things you've done in the past are your fault or are wrong in any way. I'm not saying that everything was your fault. But somethings were and deep down you know that. You are a cold and uncaring person. You need help. This isn't an attack on you this is what you need to hear. Be kinder be quicker to forgive and be understanding of other people's shortcomings. Maybe you'll read this and mock it or maybe you'll read this and finally realize it's time to fix yourself.