>>45131
Staying busy will help with depression and obsession but having a job isn't some magical cure-all. He probably wouldn't give a fuck if he met another girl but these girls go for guys that are lonely and inexperienced. the mark thinks he's made a deep connection or found a soulmate unable to imagine she's done this with 30 other guys, whereas someone with experience in relationships would recognize very quickly the lovebombing thing they do is crazy af.

Luckily most types of pain get better with time, even if you're unemployed.