>>5401
>it's not that deep is it?
It is. You gotta understand that women think very differently than men do.
When men go to a concert or something, they're generally doing it to have a good time and all that stuff.
When women go, the activity itself is secondary. To them, what matters is other more retarded things like taking pictures of themselves AT the concert, how many hot guys she can meet at the concert, and trying to convince herself that she's totally a fun and exciting person.
You see this phenomena a lot with "gamer girls". Notice how they spend zero time actually discussing videogames, and TONS of time and effort into the IDEA of being a "gamer". Lots of pink, lots of accessories, lots of pictures of her battlestation, lots of pictures of herself gaming. Like I said above, the activity itself is irrelevant and secondary to other things.
Travelling, for women, is literally just about broadcasting to everyone how rich and exciting and "cultured" she is, all the while scouting some foreign cock. Notice how women ALWAYS broadcast their travel destinations on social media. They cant control themselves, they need to tell everyone, or else they wouldnt have any reason to travel.
>I'm still kinda bitter my image of her as the shut in is shattered
I feel bad about bursting your bubble, but the truth is that all women are extroverted, and the only thing holding them back is their mental retardation. For example, a woman very insecure about her looks will stay home because shes ashamed that shes ugly and people outside will "judge" her (even if nobody really cares). It's not a personality thing for them. If she was hot, she would be extremely outgoing.
It's important that you face the truth, else you'll just get hurt again in the future.

Take a look at this video. Notice all the women indulging in narcissism and having their picture taken. You think they give a shit about the music? Fuck no. They literally only went there to get pictures and to post on social media later. It is extremely pathetic but it's the truth.