there will always be a power imbalance when dealing with a girl that whores herself online because they always keep backup orbiters for when they get bored of you or if you stand up to them. You have to either be a sociopath like them and only care about yourself or you've already lost. girls like this could never maintain a normal healthy relationship so they just cycle through the line of desperate guys who will take their abuse and just be happy they got a chance.