You can see these same arguments in desuarchive going back almost 4 years now. November 2018, she's rumored to be in the discord server and people say it's bad if true, she'll get groomed, discord has a bad rep, etc. The worst parts of the following 6 months consisted mostly of discord groomer creepiness being noticed (like the money from bonbi's ko-fi account actually going to Seth/Anonce as one example, and all the gross private chat leaks) proving the Pattern Identifiers right, and the jizzfarts spamming "incel" and poor attempts to gaslight the Pattern Identifiers with bullshit accusations of being "controlling" for identifying patterns and posting opinions about them.
What we are seeing now is the latest spat between the Pattern Identifiers and the jizzfarts. This has always happened when Bonbi behaves erratically and does wacky/stupid/potentially harmful stuff, and it will continue to happen. If you think it's anything new, then *you are new*. If you're here, this is what you signed up for. If you don't like it, leave and just consume Bontent alone without any broader context and background.
There's a reason the phrase "Time is a flat circle", borrowed from the True Detective fans we had (originating from Nietzsche I believe, the concept being much older), has been used to describe the Bonbiverse many times.