>>19139
>You just find someone that "works" and you settle
True but there's settle and there's settle.
One is just working with the other person and accepting the things the way they are because you'll never find someone 100% compatible
The other is going for a red flag parade or a fatty just so you aren't feeling alone anymore out of desperation.
>I'd rather not, it just doesnt seem fun to me. I want something stable and long term
I'm not saying you need to, I'm saying if you're capable of doing that you can probably have your pick so you don't even have to consider my second version of settle.
>>19140
>they're laughing at you
Honestly I understand because the mating/companionship genetic predisposition is a powerful motivator. I would just say to try to get it under control if possible but y'know.
>>19141
It is kind of funny but I'm honestly feeling they're just losing it at this point, like the schizo theories not the glazing. The glazing seems strange since not one of them wants to be here.