>>51982
>My mom almost always ended her friendships with most of her friends whenever she went through an episode, because she was so difficult to deal with when she was psychotic and blamed all her problems on other people and mostly the people that were close to her. Her brother cut ties with her because of this as well. But she had 2-3 resilient friends that stuck with her whom she knew from when she was in school. I think they were just used to it and could look past it
You weren't wrong when you said we went through something very similar with our moms. It sounds as if you were talking about my mom. Even down to the fact that the only friend that seemed to tolerate her crazyness was from her school days. Sadly my mom stopped talking to her for some reason. Possibly because she was dating a woman, and her daughter was also a lesbian. She also said I reminded her of her daughter after meeting me which I didn't know what to think about

>descendant of the portugese and spanish
Not quite. Most of those kids are probably some mix of italian, volga german and spanish or some other less common european nationality, same as myself. There are not a lot of people of portuguese descent around here, that's brazil. And we only really had "pure" spaniards early on, up until the early 20th century or so, after the later waves of immigration most of the white people you'd meet were much more likely to be some kind of euromutt

>>51983
Would you say "cis" people identify with the right things?