>>52059
No, that makes sense. That's probably how it is. It's like an animalistic first response. It's probably why black people are so easily irritable in general, they're somehow deeper into the animal mind. But I think it's possible to develop a habit or a mechanism that interjects and becomes aware in a moment where someone upsets you or makes you angry. Like light bulb that turns on to remind you and you become aware that that situation is something where you ususally let someone upset you, but before you do, you interject and refuse to let it affect you in any way