I let my mom have her debit card since she seemed to be doing so much better lately. As you can probably guess due to me posting about it here it went wrong and she spent her disability welfare on "gifts" for my dad and I. Like, all of it. She left 0% for food, bills and other essentials. This is the fourth time this happens, I guess the blame is on me because I never learn and I want her to have access to her money since that's how it should be. If I don't and I act like a handler instead, people treat me like I'm some sort of disgusting useless no good leech that's taking advantage of a poor sick old woman. In his corner of the ring, it looks like my dad got scammed again. By some 80 IQ woman, and she didn't even need to sleep with him. This is the sort of stuff I've been dealing with my whole life it's been great fun honestly