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>Large part of this is because most of what you see happens online, and the internet is not a good and accurate representation of humanity. Most of this consists of petty interpersonal dramas where EVERYONE is stupid, and online arguments.
That's a very good point.
>but the vast majority of my interactions with both women and men are fine
That's not the case for me. Men are fine, but it's rare to see women acting normal.
Either I'm a cynical piece of shit, or you're missing\ignoring some bad things women do. Possibly both.
>Most people are just normal, in my experience, and when they're not, it doesn't have to do with their sex.
The thing is, it kinda becomes about their sex, when you start noticing a pattern.
>but the same goes for stuff we do that women would be burnt at the stake for doing
Please provide some examples, if you're able.
(For the record, male promiscuity is also looked down upon, with the exception of circles like college frats.)
Speaking of, I'm actually very very interested in hearing women's genuine complaints and issues. It kinda triggers a soft spot for me to hear that women are also having trouble, just like men are.
However, any time I try to listen, it's always some bullshit non issues that they very often brought upon themselves, and that they could easily fix, but refuse to.
>Gender exists, we just gotta deal with it. IMO trying to be a decent person is the best thing you can do instead of fixating on what's fair or unfair like a child.
While there is definitely some truth to this, it's a bad argument to make because nobody uses it when it's WOMEN being disadvantaged. When they're disadvantaged, the world needs to change to accommodate. When men are getting screwed over, they're just told to "man up", "life's not fair", "deal with it", etc. It's the disparity that's the problem.
>the other side of the coin with the insane types of feminists who say all men are rapists
I see what you're saying, but I find it that with feminists' complaints about men, it's almost always either a non issue, or women creating their own problems. Like women complaining about being "objectified" or that men only want them for sex.