>>42571
Dude, I appreciate the sentiment, but you're just coping. Plenty of harems that are as bland and formulaic as shoujo.

Tho I agree that men have more imagination when it comes to romance and sex. Take the basic love triangle, for example: women always have the same 2men-1woman configuration with the men always chasing the woman (duh), while men have 2men-1woman (Goethe's Werther) as well as 2women-1man (Proust).

And that's not even touching on de Sad and Masoch lol.