>>47667
It could be a mix of all the things you describe. One large reason I believe is their love for being a victim. Hell, they probably love it when they actually are a victim of something. Women love being a part of communities, as they are more social and want to fit in because of it. Being a victim allows them to do just that, as everyone and their grandmothers will flock to their aid should a woman be in distress.
I remember a girl I used to know who made multiple snaps about her abusive ex as she was fleeing home from him and his family. I do believe she was abused but the way she was talking about it was almost as if she were happy to have gone through the abuse and could talk about her "traumas". She had a shared experience with the sisterhood.

I've also come to learn that with anyone, but women mostly, doing things like catcalling is only okay if they find you attractive. If they find you hot, they don't care. I don't know, I think there is a chance they were catcalled at a teen. I see grown men staring at my cousin as she walks by, but to be fair, my cousin looks more developed for her age.
To your last point, so many girl admit to being with older men. Then claim they were "young and dumb" even though they claim women mature faster than men and are more intelligent than men. Hmmmm. But you see this trend of young girls going for older men. One thing people don't often mention is that the man isn't always the one to initiate. Then these are the same women shaming dudes for going for 18 year olds because they got fucked by a 25 year old when they were 14.