>>1008672
I will put effort into another message because i'm pretty sure this isn't a troll now.
If you actually want to keep this woman then you might want to read this message

It's hard to convey the skill over shit text but it is what it is.

Women want and need to feel heard. When they don't get their needs met, any needs it builds up in them over time and then they let it all out at once on their partner which is often very confusing for men.
Men often fall for the trick of trying to 'solve' womens problems, women don't want their problems solved, they want their feelings listened to.
If she says you didn't react strongly enough in the past thing, you need to remain present in the moment and say something like, i'm sorry I wasn't fully there for you.
If you try to solve her problem, it wont work
If you try to make an excuse, it wont work
The process is validating her feelings and letting them land in you, then she feels heard

You have to look into her and try to remain peaceful, when she sees you doing this without reacting, she can start dumping her emotional baggage onto you.

Everything she will say will be a test of your emotional stability. If you falter in that she will feel unsafe and use bullshit to blame you without saying why.
If you remain present, calm, and actively listening she will get what she wants/needs and her emotional baggage balloon will slowly deflate.