I am back from seeing the Indian woman doctor. My PSA level was 0.77 which is well in the normal range. So probably no prostate cancer.
My blood pressure was in the normal range again (after being high the first time I went) so that is good as well.
She is not going to put me on any medication. I just have to live with my prostate symptoms until they get more serious.
I think I can live with them now that I understand them. I am not freaked out by them any more. I have adjusted mentally.