Spoke with the ethnic about 10hrs over the last week. She accidently asked me to pop in to her place, before changing her mind. I guess she doesnt trust that she can control herself.. maybe. Or just wants to twist the knife reminding me of what we're not doing. I met up with her and purposefully wasnt flirty, like I normally am, and she said I was bitchy and on my rags. Cant win.