>>20058
tbf, if you want to lose weight "to be healthier" it will never work
the only way to lose weight is if you want to do it to not look like a fatass
you dont know what being skinny feels like so you cannot imagine that end point, nor are you likely to think the way you feel right now is "bad" given that you live through it and have nothing to compare to, but you know what skinny looks like
self-hate is the only driving motivator