Here's reality. Bestie is always and I mean ALWAYS sandwiched between me and someone else AT ALL TIMES. I wouldn't be alone with her in this situation, there's always someone with more free time than me around. I'm usually there to act as a witness and lookout. My friends are paranoid to say it mildly. Though it may happen, it's just very rare, but we covered that base already above.
So I'm there with one of my little light-weight, innocent looking friends and this happens. I simply protect Bestie, that's the end of my involvement. I keep her safe, get her safe, and that's all I need to be concerned with. That's my job and it's unforgivable to do anything else. I am told not to engage period and believe me if I did, I'd be in trouble with them too.
Exactly what they do would be well planned and choreographed. I would guess if it was my exgf, then there would be a fight. If it was Bestie's mom, it would be unpredictable by me. My exgf is the alpha of the group as she was born to be, but her sister is just as ruthless, she's the one who instructed me to scream and she's used that before to great effect. There are two different strategies, one to eliminate witnesses and one to get as many around you as possible.
If it was the narcissist it would be verbal battle no odd woman could possibly win. Again, it would involve gaining as many witnesses as possible since the narcissist is a very smol person. I know these strategies also from the fact that they're constantly grilling Bestie and Bestie is kind of a pacifist which is a great disappointment to them all. That's why she's in BJJ, to train her instincts, make it automatic.
So she was at school the oither day and there's an asshole boy who used to bully her but he bullied a lot of people. Well he came walking up looking for trouble and she stuck out her elbow as if going for his throat and he stopped and walked away.
That's not BJJ, that's something I taught her lol. I asked her about it and she said, "I was just stretching. (wink)" damn
